How a first look may just save your wedding day! (and your sanity)

If you’ve been debating whether or not to do a first look on your wedding day, this post is for you.
As an Orlando wedding photographer, I’ve seen firsthand how a first look can completely change the feel of your day—for the better.

What Is a First Look?

A first look is a private moment before the ceremony where the couple sees each other for the first time, away from the crowd. It’s intimate, emotional, and often one of the most memorable parts of the day.

But beyond the photos, a first look has practical benefits that just might save your sanity.

1. It Calms the Nerves

Let’s be honest: wedding days are full of emotions. Seeing your partner before the ceremony gives you both a moment to breathe, connect, and reset.
Couples always say it’s the most grounding part of their day.

2. You Get More Time Together

Without a first look, you spend most of the day apart until the ceremony. With a first look, you get more shared time, more photos, and more chances to actually enjoy each other before the whirlwind begins.

3. Your Timeline Runs Smoother

First looks allow you to knock out most of your portraits before the ceremony, which means:

  • Less rushing after the ceremony

  • No missing cocktail hour

  • A more relaxed, flowing timeline overall

Especially in Orlando’s hot, humid afternoons, having the flexibility to shoot earlier or in better light is a huge win.

4. The Emotions Are Still Real

Worried it will “ruin” the moment down the aisle?
Trust me—it won’t.
That walk still hits hard. But with a first look, you’ve already had that authentic, personal reaction without the pressure of 100+ eyes on you.

Should You Do a First Look?

Only you can decide, but if you're looking for a calmer, more connected, and smoother wedding day experience, a first look might be your secret weapon.

🎥 Want to see how it actually plays out? Watch the video above and let’s talk about how we can plan your Orlando wedding timeline to include one.

D'mitri de Castro